When it comes to dealing with individuals that hate us or even despise us we must handle these cases differently.Handling such situations must be done with gentleness and meekness not revenge and spitefulness. Though they do not like us for whatever reason we must continue to be a blessing to them. We are to not to let their actions stop us from displaying the love of the Lord; the same unconditional love that Jesus has for us.
"Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not." (KJV) Romans 12:14
Be blessed, be encouraged, and remember the Reflection of Change is Within You!!!